This is probably going to get a shower of rockets, but I believe that the 
proper way to deal with this situation is through negotiation and 
discussion. Quitting, although a favourite knee-jerk response, justs shows 
the baddies they were right all along. If anyone is interested, I will put 
forward my thoughts for public discussion.

Louise Renton
Bone Research Unit
MRC
Johannesburg
South Africa
Tel & fax +27 11 717 2298
"Time flies like an arrow, fruit flies like a banana"





>From: "Tague, Curtis" 
>To: WArnold546@aol.com, histonet@pathology.swmed.edu
>Subject: RE: wife needs help/advice or moral support/ from worried husband
>Date: Thu, 16 Jan 2003 13:04:59 -0800
>
>My advice,
>QUIT... TODAY!
>
>Curt
>
>
>  -----Original Message-----
>From: 	WArnold546@aol.com [mailto:WArnold546@aol.com]
>Sent:	Thursday, January 16, 2003 11:45
>To:	histonet@pathology.swmed.edu
>Subject:	wife needs help/advice or moral support/ from worried husband
>
>DONT WANT TO MAKE A LONG STORY BUT MY WIFE IS RESIGNING FROM HER HISTOLOGY
>SUPERVISORY POSITION, TOMMORROW. SHE HAS BEEN IN THIS POSITION FOR ALMOST
>8YEARS. SHE LOVES HER WORK AND IS REALLY GOOD AT WHAT SHE DOES. THE PROBLEM
>HAS BEEN HER LAB MANAGER AND 1 OF THE DOCTORS. TO NOT GET IN DEPTH WITH THE
>PROBLEM LETS JUST SAY THEY HAVE MADE HER LIFE HELL FOR 8 YEARS BY 
>SLANDERING
>HER REPUTATION TO NEW WORKERS UNDER HER, SELL REPS, ETC. HER LAB MANAGER
>TELLS PEOPLE THAT SHE TREATS PEOPLE REALLY BAD, HAS NO PEOPLE SKILLS OR
>SUPERVISORY SKILLS. SHE KNOWS THIS BECAUSE THE PEOPLE HAVE COME TO HER AND
>ASKED HER IF SHE KNEW WHAT HE WAS SAYING ABOUT HER! THE DOCTOR WOULD YELL A
>HER IN FRONT OF OTHER PEOPLE AND TELL SELLS REPS THAT SHE NEEDS TRAINING 
>AND
>DOESN'T KNOW WHAT SHE IS DOING. WHEN THEY CHECKED ON HER MANUALS THEY WERE 
>IN
>ORDER AND SHE WAS DOING EVERYTHING CORRECTLY. THEY WOULD THEN WANT TO KNOW
>WHY IS THE DOCTOR SAYING THESE THINGS. ALL MY WIFE WANTED TO DO WAS BE ABLE
>TO DO THE WORK THAT SHE LOVES AND IS TALENTED IN DOING. SHE HAS GONE THRU 3
>CAP INSPECTIONS AND HAS DONE PERFECT ON ALL OF THEM. ON ONE OF THEM, THE
>INSPECTING DOCTOR GAVE A COMPLIMENT TO MY WIFE AND THE DOCTOR SHE WORKS 
>WITH
>JUST SAID HE COULD REPLACE HER WITH THE SECRETARY. SHE HAS NEVER HAD A 
>WRITE
>UP AGAINST HER IN 8 YEARS AND WONDERS WHY IF SHE IS SO BAD! SHE DOESN'T 
>KNOW
>WHAT TO DO EXCEPT TO RESIGN BUT IS EXTREMELY DEPRESSED BECAUSE THERE ARE 
>NOT
>MANY HISTOLOGY JOBS HERE IN THE RIO GRANDE VALLEY AND FEELS HER CAREER IS
>OVER. SHE IS ONLY 33 AND IT IS AN INJUSTICE THAT SHE IS BEING DONE THIS 
>WAY.
>I AM HER HUSBAND AND LOVE HER VERY MUCH AND WANT TO HELP IN ANY WAY 
>POSSIBLE.
>I AM HOPING THAT SOME OF YOU OUT THERE CAN GIVE HER ADVICE OR ENCOURAGEMENT
>OVER THIS ORDEAL. THANKYOU IF YOU CAN!!!!! WRITE TO WARNOLD546@AOL OR CALL
>956 584-6874
>MY WIFES NAME IS CONSUELO ARNOLD AND MY NAME IS BILL THANKYOU AGAIN!!


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